I am sure she didnt see anything in you actual post to 'like' hun! I actually met my Dh before this other guy but we drifted apart for three months not long after we met and it was in that time that i had met this other guy.Had it been before I don't think I would have went home with now H and my life would have been much different!

Chatting allows you to talk to your friends, family, or complete strangers in real-time, and the number of people that chat online is enormous.

There are a variety of different ways you can connect with other people to chat, mostly dependent on the type of chat you are looking for.

One of my mums old (nasty) boyfriends boasted about only dating single mums because he had more control because they were a little bit more vulnerable!!!

So be careful...maybe find another way of having a bit of naughty sex with someone who isnt that ****** up...sorry for the rant, it just upsets me that so many women fall for this **** and end up getting burned, i wish the blokes would 'man up' and get to grips with being real men not pervy preditors with sex addictions coz they're so frikkin messed up....

It helps me sleep better to tell myself that he never or that if he did, it was a chick that could kick *** the way I can now! I am glad you have managed to get over it and seem to have become very strong! I think serwah may have been 'liking' the fact that you were brave enough to tell your story to give the op some advice?

I am sure she didnt see anything in you actual post to 'like' hun! I am glad you have managed to get over it and seem to have become very strong! I think serwah may have been 'liking' the fact that you were brave enough to tell your story to give the op some advice? It might make me more cautious in future about doing that stuff if I were single again.

We became really good friends out of it and tried to be "sex buddies" but the feelings ran deeper and we both realised that in good time.

Thanks I'm over it I just really hope that he never hurt anyone else.

As long as you meet somewhere neutral, make sure someone knows where you are and arrange to call them at a set time so you can tell them you are ok and if you don't call they know where to find you. It's not all that different to a one night stand really only a wee bit safer as you've been chatting so you have that vibe already. you're a long time dead luv x Oh and do let me know how it went Aslong as your taking precautions and being safe with these mens it's really no different than having a one night stand with a stranger you would meet in a club/pub. I met him a few times and he hurt me the last time. I could have met someone in the pub that would have done the exact same. You don't have to give them the nitty gritty of what you're doing but could say that you're just meeting up with him and want someone to know where you are.