Say these words to them: “I’m sorry, the more I like you it just gets hard for me to think about your sexual past.It’s just been bothering me lately, but I’m working through it.

In a way, it feels like they cheated on you (and you can’t get it out of your head).

Unfortunately for them, they didn’t cheat on you, but they get treated as if they did.

On the other hand, if they start feeling guilty about their past, then they didn’t deserve the beating you gave them.

They’re a person who really wants to make you happy and to be with you, and you feel bad for hurting them over something they can’t control now.

It is not rare to see a younger guy and an older woman date and have a very intense sexual and romantic relationship, which defies the traditional “older man, younger woman” set-up that we are used to seeing. First, the fact that such a dating situation is still somewhat taboo makes is all the more enticing and exciting.

Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women.I’m sorry for being so snippy.” Approach the discussion as if this was completely your problem, not theirs…. And now you’ve got only a faceless sea of everyone else to potentially date.It’s something that you’re dealing with that is really no fault of their own. Afterall, they were probably expecting to have this conversation with you at some point. It’s like a million, torturous images keep flashing through your head, and your own imagination keeps inventing all new horrors for you. Now, compared to the sexual history of , maybe theirs wasn’t so bad at all. Next to them being gone from your life entirely, this stuff about their past isn’t really a big deal. Note that this point will become instantly and painfully clear when/if you actually do break up.That higher sex drive translates, among other things, into being more direct with men.The more mature women may be interested in dating a younger guy out of sheer curiosity of what it feels like dating someone younger, and also because usually younger guys are more “agile,” active, energetic.Mike is web software developer by day, and is in school to become a psychologist.