All you’re going to do is reinforce that this subject is shameful and wrong.Instead, you want her to feel this is something natural, normal, and FUN to talk about. Mine was horrible…I remember being so nervous that when I first went in to kiss her, I shoulder checked her instead.

You do that by responding with confidence, positivity, and even playfulness. I’d like to think I’m a lot better now.” If you handle her hesitance well, she will usually open up about her sexuality.

Here are 3 ways make a woman feel more comfortable if she’s hesitating to answer a sexual question. If you tried one of the above examples and she’s still uncomfortable answering your question, then I wouldn’t broach the subject further during this interaction.

Your attitude has to convey that they’re a healthy part of building a romantic connection.

I’m not expecting you walk up to random women with questions women like that. In fact, I’ve found that while that approach can work, you usually get a much stronger response and connection if you wait until later in the conversation.

Instead, assume if you’ve been talking to a woman for a minimum of 15-30 minutes (at a bar or on a date), it’s safe to try leading into more enticing conversation.

From there, you can immediately roll into your sexual question to open up a discussion.A couple of questions is often all you need to turn things from friendly to romantic.— You aren’t going to magically fall into bed with a woman.But to consider having sex with you, a woman has to about sex — especially with you.She can only do that if you show her that sexual conversations aren’t shameful.She may challenge you and put you on the spot about why you’re asking about this sensitive subject.