At a bar or club guys can use body language, tone of voice and strong eye-contact to get their point across.

Creativity and a strong command of the English language will go a long way, but there are also some things you want to avoid if you want to get the most out of your online gaming time. No one is saying you have to be the next Hemingway, but being able to convey your sense of humor and personality with well-written messages goes a long way.

Try and tap into your sense of wit and let it come through in your texting.

If you ask for it too soon, you might freak her out.

Wait until you’ve been vibing for a while, and then go for it.

Stick to short sentences that make her laugh, and try not to say things that every other guy is saying.

Be original and, as Woody Allen says, find your funny.Not every guy maintains the kind of lifestyle that is conducive to going out every single night, but with apps like Tinder and Bumble (the best in my opinion), you can literally game twenty-four hours a day.It might be a Monday night, and you could be sitting in your bedroom eating ramen, un-showered with your hair a mess, yet still be setting up dates for later in the week.You can use a canned line to get things going, but once she responds, cut the tether and let your personality fly.Just because she posts a picture of herself from Halloween in a schoolgirl outfit, plaid miniskirt and all, doesn’t mean you can tell her you want to put her in detention for being naughty etc.Expressions like smiles, winks, or a laughing face can make your point more clear to the girl you’re talking to, so don’t be afraid to throw them in once in a while.