He begins to create a pattern in his actions when you have become old and someone else becomes new. He may develop his pattern after work on a daily basis working later and later nights at the office then when he comes home he is providing almost too much detail about what happened at work or not at all.

Another pattern he may create may be choosing a hobby or interest that is very unusual to his personality and attending this faithfully, what you can do to find out if he is sincere is offer to pick him up from the pottery class on some nights. There may also be the weekend pattern of always “needing to get away, have some time to myself, or I’m so busy with errands.” All the while making little or no time for the two of you to go out and be seen together.

Others may have stayed because they didn’t want to carry the guilt of leaving their children’s father over issues they feel could be resolved. As long as women continue to believe that the power of sex, money, counseling, personal sacrifice or a host of other strategies to change a bad man will work, they will continue to subject themselves to mental and physical abuse.

Avoid the same mistakes and better your chances of finding a partner online!

Women always say, “I didn’t know he was like that” when their boyfriends perform acts that cause everyone around them shame.

You must not leave and then go back to him, he will only get better about lying to you over time.

The Player also known as The Pimp – This man is obsessed with being contacted or making contact with the opposite sex.

There comes a time when women will have to get off their knees whether she is praying to God or pleading to her mate to change.

She will have to stand up carrying her self-respect in hand and walk right through the door of “end the relationship now.” The following advice is written for women who haven’t yet made a commitment or a baby with a “bad boy.” She may be struggling with whether she is ready to settle down with him, distance herself from him or keep him as a friend.

From identity theft to standing on the street corner selling drugs, he always has a knot of money and doesn’t mind living lavishly.

Now you may think that what he has told you about his daytime job is paying the bills, but the truth of the matter that job didn’t pay for the designer clothing and expensive jewelry you wear; instead it was the second one you may or may not know about. He has enemies and one day some one will catch up with him, you or anyone who associates with either of you, and the sight won’t be pretty.

In some cases they really weren’t aware of the boyfriend’s mischievous deeds, but in other cases women knew well in advance they just hoped he would stop.