Women you gotta be smarter than this, go back to his place, keep your kids out of it, and leave the little ones with a babysitter.

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It is not your place to discipline an unruly child either, check his/her mom on that, and if it gets too much – call it a day and leave.

Having to play daddy when you’re simply dating a woman is not fair to you either, so don’t ever let them lay that on you as a responsibility.

Guys this is hard if you aren’t a lover of children; I cannot stress this any harder; if kids annoy you, or if they get in the way for you, then stick to women who lack kids.

If you do love kids, or are tolerant of kids in a friendly way, then you must realize that dating a woman with a child is like dating two people.

Why do women feel they should date only one man at a time? When a man showed a genuine interest in me, I would stop dating other men for one BIG reason: I lacked the confidence to juggle several men at once because I doubted my self-worth.

I was never comfortable playing the field by dating two guys at a time — I felt sneaky and unethical.Ladies listen, this man did not get used to a kid screaming like you did, he was not kept up nights tending to the crying and projectile poop, he isn’t seasoned in this.Above all else, including your want for a mate is your child’s safety.Most teens are cynical and standoffish to new boyfriends so you have to expect hostility initially.Don’t go turning on the young man’s Madden game and professing your “skills” in hopes that the video game will bond you to him.If you have good rapport with your child, have regular talks with them and they respect you, then it is important that you get their approval.