I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up.I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.

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Medellin nightclubs are for dancing, so it’s very easy to go up to a woman in a noisy disco, put out your hand, gesture for her to take it, and start dancing.

I do this often, and many times I will dance one or two songs without even saying a word.

I go to the supermarket and I see beautiful women, I go get my hair cut and there’s a breathtaking woman, I go eat lunch and I see an amazingly attractive woman.

Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there.

At first glance Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look.

So I do not have that instant “gringo effect” on them.

The “gringo effect” is the reaction a foreign guy gets from girls here in Medellin.

It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.

Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.

More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.

It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.