How is it possible that we, the human race, haven’t figured out dating by now?We Millennials seem to have given up entirely, throwing it out the window in order to get freaky with whomever we feel like. Well guess what, dating is actually way better than hooking up. Because instead of spending all your time chasing tail, you get to know a wide range of individuals, see them as much or as little as you like, and let things progress naturally.

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It’s a game that can’t be maintained and guarantees dissatisfaction for both parties.

The goal of dating is to find someone who wants what you want, and wants that with you.

The thought of hooking up should be nowhere near your mind.

Waiting is always better because it gives you more time to get to know each other before you start exploring *ahem* those aspects of each other’s lives.

And this starts with knowing how to go on first dates.

First dates are often boring, awkward, unexciting, and even torturous to many men.

Guys build up the occasion in their mind for days or weeks beforehand, only to be severely let down after the fact.

Too much pressure, too little chemistry, not enough fun, not enough attraction, nothing accomplished—all of these disappointments crush men in their pursuit of love. You really have to check out each tip and truly take in what each expert is saying! make sure you check out the awesome infographic at the very end of the post when you’re finished.

But if you asked her out, nothing on Earth should keep you from paying. No longer can you depend on alcohol and dim lights to make you attractive to women.

The best kind of girl will offer to pay (ladies, that’s proper date etiquette for you), but you’re next move is to assure her that you’ve got it. If you get a second date, proper etiquette dictates that she will pay. Do you know how to shave without getting razor burn? You have to be type of guy with Facebook photos that she can impress her friends with.

It’s only after that gets really old (and trust me, it does) when we start to consider actually dating. If it works out you can become exclusive with someone that might actually be worth it.